It’s normal to have trouble in paradise, its normal to argue and fights are part and parcel of a relationship, the question is how far does it go?.
Has he ever trapped you in a room and not let you out? has he ever raised a fist as if he was going to hit you? has he ever thrown an object that hit you or nearly did?or has he ever held you down or grabbed you to restrain you or threatened to hurt you? if the answer to any of this question is yes then there’s no need to keep on wondering whether he’ll get violent some day,truth is he already has been.
Your partner becomes abusive the moment he is unable to control his temper or restrain his anger on you. A real man should bust his ass to feed his family and loved ones and fight for those he has to and will treat his woman with respect everyday. If he is an abusive partner he’ll never be emotionally satisfied and no matter how much you give him it will never be enough and he’ ll keep coming with demands because he believes you are responsible for his needs until you feel drained to nothing. Don’t let it be your prison, don’t play his game play yours. If he is the kind of man who sits in a room and you feel the whole room simmering, the sense of some unpredictable force that might any moment break loose and do something terrible then you are sitting on a time bomb that might explode any time and leave you in shreads.Love is supposed to be fun and exiting not sad and depressing.an abusive partner doesn’t have a problem with his anger,he has a problem with your anger.he takes from you the right to be angry with him and no matter how badly he treats you he’ll expect you to never raise your voice and never should your blood boil because he alone has the privilege of rage,Physically or emotionally girl you’re trapped in a deadly prison.The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone who never makes you feel like an option in their life.If he calls you names;Idiot,Stupid,Cunt,go and sit in the corner where you belong,he just isn’t the man.if its not the bruises on the body that will hurt,then the wounds of the heart and the scars on the mind will.He may be too loving but when his feelings become distorted by feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment and overly becomes controlling,Flee.You’ll waste your life waiting for him to change,sleeping next to him and feeling so alone wondering why he won’t treat you right,you’ll keep thinking its your fault and you give more and more hoping that your efforts will change things.This is just the truth you don’t wanna face,let go..Flee.As much as he should be whipped,don’t wait till he completely destroys you,the greater the power the more dangerous the abuse. DON’T LET HIM,FLEE!!