Relationship

Signs Of A Womanizer

Written by Jaymo YoungGee
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Love, care and trust are pillars that build

the base of a beautiful relationship. But

in a relation with a womanizer, these are

the least and last expected things. Before

proceeding to deal with this complex

situation, keep in mind that it is only in

the rarest of rare cases that a womanizer

will come out of his playboy image. But

you should not lose hope and try your

best to mend his ways before breaking the

relationship. Some tips to deal with a

philanderer have been discussed in this

article.

Signs of a Womanizer

As I had mentioned, roving eyes classify a

womanizer. It is innate in him to stare at

other women and fantasize them. He

enjoys the thrill of chasing many women

and then dumping them after fulfilling his

motives. In some, this lecherous mentality

results from a past heartbreak or

rejection, it can also stem from fear of

rejection from the present relationship. No

girl can tolerate this behavior from her

boyfriend. It can be difficult for you to

bring the person back on track and you

should try doing it only if you want to see

a future with him.

How You can Deal With Him

Confront Him

It must have often happened with you

that you two had gone out for a date and

you had caught him openly staring

lustfully at some other hot woman. If you

catch him red handed, without wasting a

minute, you should confront him then and

there. Tell him that this is not expected in

your presence or absence. Ask him how

would he feel if you do the same thing.

Make your presence strong in his life and

try to spend as much time with him as

possible.

Test Him

If you really want the relation to work and

want to teach him a lesson or two for life,

you should strain him emotionally. Put

forth before him the examples of other

couples who are deeply committed to

each other. Make him jealous by hanging

out with other guys. Analyze his behavior

after this and only then decide to take the

future of action; that is a breakup. Ask

and question him about his childhood and

past relationships and see how he reacts

to it. Judge him and look if there is any

tint of goodness in his mind.

Serve an Ultimatum

Once you have decided that the guy is not

going to change in his ways, and is still

fantasizing about other girls, serve an

ultimatum of breakup. But please talk out

your fears and expectations to the guy

and tell him in clear thoughts what are

your expectations are from a relationship.

Tell him that you cannot handle this

behavior and want a serious relationship.

Don’t let the sugar coated talks and false

promises (for which you had fallen for

him) melt you and forgive him. Keep in

mind, he is a Casanova and mending his

ways is no easy task.

Keep No Expectations

Last but not the least, keep no

expectations from a womanizer. As I had

said earlier, if you are in relationship with

a womanizer, it will be a lot better for you

to keep your expectations the least. This

is a bitter truth, but is a fact. Try your

best to modify his mentality but keep no

expectations of commitment, marriage,

honesty and even love. Well can this be

called a relation then? Absolutely not.

Give a deep thought to what and why you

are into it and decide for yourself.

I hope you know you are with a wrong

person for whom love and relationships

are a playground and women sadly, are

his toys. Being with a womanizer holds no

future sense. If you are still in the early

stage of the relationship, stay away from

it and if you are quite into the

relationship mend his ways or prepare

yourself for a breakup

 

Written by YoungGee Kenya

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Jaymo YoungGee

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